And?!?: Monday memoirs

Monday, August 6, 2012

Monday memoirs

Camps bay yesterday pic courtesy of my cellphone's camera

Middle age is awful? We all end up looking "different!"

The Leather Fossil bag,that I found at the top of my cupboard, and it is the perfect size for my I-pad. I was going to buy the plastic one from Musica for R500 or more - Seek and ye shall find something better in your closet?

Hi all

How is your Monday?

It started off sunny this morning, then it was a really cloudy morning and rain fell just minutes after I had told my friend, Pam, that there was no rain, and it was fine weather to bring her dog for a walk on the Blouberg Beach, oops! Guess I was wrong about that?

I was in Camps Bay yesterday, but there were no celebs! (Prince Harry and other famous folk like Camps Bay!) Where were they all? My German teacher when I was at school, Marion Dunsford-White, has a guest house in Camps Bay. Lucky Lady.

After lunch in Camps Bay, at a nice restaurant. It was a sea food restaurant, but I had the steak, I do not like to take a chance that I will be allergic to the seafood after the last time I dared to venture into a fish restaurant and ordered fish and was ill for 3 weeks afterwards. (It was the Cape Town Fish market restaurant here in Sea Side Village. Maybe they were still trying to get away with serving illegal fish species to their patrons, the night I was at the Cape Town Fish Market? It (CTFM) has been on Carte Blanche twice for serving illegal fish breeds! Some types of fish can actually kill you! So imagine my horror when I had ordered the low fat menu on a European airline and they served fish! I have not requested an SM (special meal) this year! Fish and peanuts are two of the world's biggest allergens. and yet they serve them? SAA served Pretzels when we last flew on a long haul flight with them in 2006. Cape Town to London Heathrow and back a month later! One of the female flight attendants on our return flight from London (Michelle Frey) goes to the same church as me! What a small world it is....

Unfortunately that is all from me for today.

Have a magnificent Monday further folks!

Signing off from all my blogs for today.

Ciao
DAVE

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Qotes I Like

"With the new day comes new strength and new thoughts." - Elanor Roosevelt

"Success isn't about how your lfe looks to others. It's about how it feels to you." - Michelle Obama

"The best way out is always through." - Robert Frost

"Talk to yourself like you would to someone you love." - Brene Brown

"You get in life what you have the courage to ask for." - Oprah Winfrey

"When you talk you are only repeating what you already know. But if you listen, you may learn something new." - Dalai Lama

"Time is a created thing. To say "I don't have time." is like saying "I don't want to." - Leo Tzu

About me!

My Afrikaans teacher, who was Miss Liebenberg when I was at St. John's College, in the late 90's (1994-end of 1996) and other people I know, have in the past, asked me why I don't have my full story on my blog, as my story is one that would help inspire others facing a similar situation.

So here we go folks- In December 1996 I started getting blinding headaches and became very photo phobic, my pupils were hugely dilated. I never really got headaches before then. We were on holiday at the Sugar Beach Hotel, in Mauritius, when my life changed forever. On our return my situation just kept getting worse and I went temporarily blind from the pressure behind my eyes my tumour caused. Christmas 1996 was absolutely nightmarish for me. I did not know what was going on with my body - I thought I was facing my last days here on earth.

On 15 January 1997 (I can never forget this date), the day school started for that year, I was in Hospital having Brain Surgery to try and remove my tumour. Thank God it was too firmly routed to my brain stem for this to be done. According to my Neuro Surgeon (who will remain Anon.) he tried everything to remove it but it was not possible - I haemoraged and he panicked. Had they been able to get it out my left side would have become my right side in my minds thinking. I distinctively remember waking up from surgery in the operating theatre and puking into my oxygen mask. I lost my speech for several months, my ability to walk (to this day I limp as my left leg is not in sync with the right side of my body), I could not use the toilet for months and was in agony as neither end (a bit graphic) but what the worked as my brain was not correctly sending the signal to my netherlands- so I could not get rid of my body's waste. It was a long and crap year 1997 and trying to survive. I was on a tv programme on SABC1 (I believe, you believe?) in June 1997 and a month later, my mom, dad and me went to Australia. OZ (We flew to Perth on SAA) is a nine hour flight from Johannesburg and a twelve (12) hour flight back to Johannesburg? Strong head winds on the return flight. (one of life's odd stats.?) On our return I started getting rapidly worse again. The Oncology doctor gave me a diagnosis of three weeks to live in December 1997 as there was nothing more he could do for me. - I gave my oncology Doctor Martin Chassen a hug - he started crying. Well I guess only God knows how long you will be around?

I turn 38 on 21 November of this year (2018), I have not seen a doctor for years, I do not take any medication, but only vitamins and I am still here! I have tremendous faith in God. I believe all religions are equal, in the way that the basis of all religions is of a higher power, a god, the way you choose to practice your faith is up to you. I am a Catholic Christian and know 100% that I would not have survived what I did without God, Strangers awesome healing prayers (they prayed for me in churches, mosques and Synagogues my family's parish Priest Father Leithem sent a petition to our Lady of Medjugorje in Croatia and used to bring me aloe vera mixed with Grapa that a parishoner used to make for me. A boy (he's 39 now) from St. John's College, Anthony Spanjaard, told me about these vitamins his mom sold. I took them in a large dosage (16) a day at first to boost my immune system. I prayed like mad and voila.

This I have no answer for and for many years I felt guilty - why did I survive my cancer and many other people do not. Go figure?

DAVE